Just up James Canyon, from that oddly shaped house with the fire-pit in the middle of it, was the castle mailbox my father built at the bottom of our driveway. As a mountain kid, I had free range of the woods and often wound up at the Howlett's. I don't remember meeting them, I just remember them being there, like the trees and the river.
My best friend Missy Rabbit and I would work on Joe's swatch books, taking little samples of cloth and sticking them on to crisp white pages with the descriptions, while Susie would give us scalp massages and fix us lunch. We got paid in cash or candy, I can't quite remember.
I remember running around and around that fire-pit in the center of the house, making sure not to fall in, playing some game or another with Missy and then finally falling asleep amongst all the pillows, inevitably curled up next to several cats; Joe and Susie tinkering about watering plants or sitting out on the deck.
On the Fourth of July, Missy and I were batter mixers at the Town Hall while Joe was in charge of grilling bacon and sausage. And of course, he led the kazoo band. My little brother and I would spend hours decorating our bikes to ride in the parade.
There were spring Easter Eggs hunts at the Howlett's - only that magic bunny knows how many eggs they cooked and dyed and hid for all the Jamestown kids. Summer afternoons were spent playing Jungle Golf (croquet in the Howlett's yard). When I was mad at my parents and "ran away," it was usually to see Joe and Susie. And they always sent me back home eventually.
I remember Zach and all his travels and adventures. He was always coming from or going to some other country. And the time he taught his Dutch girlfriend Camilla to drive.
When Susie passed, I was on my own adventure in Antarctica. I called the Merc for her memorial celebration and talked to Joe on the phone. On the other end of that phone was the same voice that I remembered from my childhood: inquisitive, gentle and always ready with a joke or two.
I haven't been up to Jamestown in a while. My own father lives above Ward now, continuing the great line of mud-hut dwellers. It was hard to see the pictures online of all the destruction, familiar faces on the news and the community that had been my village experiencing something so un-grounding. But I wasn't at all surprised at how quickly everyone started to rebuild; how one story after another emerged about neighbors and friends helping each other with supplies. That sense of community, of selfless friendship and the love of living in the mountains is something I think Joe would be so proud of, something he will always be remembered for.
From his jovial personality to the little memories I'll always keep in my heart, I am so fortunate to have had Joe in my life. He was my neighbor, my second dad and my friend. I'm lucky too, to have known and loved Susie and have been so worldly inspired by Zach.
I'm raising my glass to you tonight, you crazy Howletts! I love you all dearly!
XOXO
Chelsea